Celebrating Life: Learning to Love the Little Things
- Evalyn Abernathy
- Nov 7, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 29, 2024
In the rush of life it’s easy to become fixated on long term goals, large milestones, and big achievements. We’re taught all throughout life to “go big” and make the most of ourselves. While these things are important and good to strive for throughout the course of our lives, it’s important to take time to enjoy the seemingly small details and experiences life has to offer and the richness they add to living. Learning to celebrate life means to savor these moments. Here’s how we can cultivate a deeper appreciation for the everyday things that make life worth living.
The Power of Presence
The first step to appreciate the little things is to be fully present in the moment. I can speak to this from my experience of being too wrapped up in my socials and worried about how I can make my life look better than others on social media. For me, I love feeling the warmth of the sun on my skin in the morning, my friends and family's laughter, or the comfort of a warm cup of coffee in my hands. These moments don’t require anything extravagant or need to be posted for the world to see, they just ask for our attention. Next time you’re doing a simple task rather than being distracted or multitasking, focus on the little joys of the moment. It's in these moments that we rediscover the beauty of being alive.
Make Time for the Things That Bring You Joy
We all have things that make us feel alive—whether it’s a hobby, a favorite activity, or time spent with loved ones. But often, these things can get pushed aside for more “important” tasks or commitments. The secret to a joyful life isn’t just in big moments of celebration but in carving out time for the small things that bring us joy. It might be dancing in your living room, painting, gardening, cooking your favorite meal, or just sitting outside and enjoying the fresh air. My personal favorite things to do are hanging out with friends, running, hiking, and doing newspaper puzzles. By prioritizing these small joys, we create pockets of happiness that brighten our days. When we prioritize our schedules to do what we love alongside our responsibilities, we enrich our lives with meaning and purpose.
Embrace Imperfection
Finally, learning to celebrate life’s little things means embracing imperfection. We often focus our efforts on perfection–the perfect job, home, relationship, and workout schedule. But in truth, life is messy, unpredictable, and imperfect. Instead of striving for perfection, embrace the imperfections that make life unique. I know, personally, that I always run into some sort of scheduling conflict, spontaneity of plans, or my projects don’t quite turn out the way I originally envisioned. But it’s important to know that these imperfections are an integral part of life’s beauty. By letting go of the need for everything to be flawless, we free ourselves to experience life in its real form. And it’s in this imperfect beauty that we find the most genuine moments of joy.
In the end, life’s true richness doesn’t come from grand achievements or extravagant experiences, but from learning to love the small, everyday things that fill our days. When we slow down, pay attention, and cultivate gratitude for the simple pleasures around us, we discover that the little things matter the most. It's in these moments that, when pieced together, create a life full of meaning, connection, and joy. Featured below are a few small moments that have helped create my joy for living.





